In psychoanalytic terms, this is a symbolic merging of the ego. To call someone by your own name is to say, "I am you, and you are me. There is no boundary between us." It is the ultimate rejection of solitude. For Elio, a lonely only child wandering through his summer, Oliver represents a mirror. Oliver is the confident, "American" version of the person Elio wants to become. Conversely, Oliver sees in Elio the intellectual vulnerability and authenticity he has buried under his "Later, bro" bravado.
The ensuing breakdown, where Elio begins to cry, is the heart of the film. It is the confusion of adolescence: "I don't know what I want," Elio sobs. He is embarrassed not by the sex, but by the overwhelming flood of emotion that accompanies being truly seen by another person. Oliver holds him. It is messy, awkward, and real. The peach scene endures in pop culture not because it is shocking, but because it is the ultimate metaphor for the bittersweet taste of young love鈥攕weet, soft, and inevitably fleeting. Call Me By Your Name
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